For Guys - If You're Married And Not Having Sex

Tyler Todt

 

@tyromper

When my wife whispers, "Hurry reading the kids books & meet me in bed, I'll be waiting in my birthday suit!" I feel 100 feet tall :) If a guy routinely advances on his wife & she treats it like a chore & NEVER seems interested, he's going to get discouraged, look elsewhere & the marriage is in BIG trouble. If you're married & NOT HAVING SEX you don't need to wonder if there's a problem...... there is. *BOOKMARK this thread & let's fix that!

Most guys won't cheat physically, but they will mentally with porn & the marriage is still in trouble then. Most wives do not understand how the male brain works. I see so many guys BLAMING THEIR WIVES for lack of sex. Fellas, that is what a BOY would do. Take ownership & do

Know it's THE GUYS RESPONSIBILITY TO HELP HER UNDERSTAND your needs. She cannot read your mind. I recall asking my wife a couple years into marriage, "How would you feel if everytime you tried to talk to me for a week I ignored you, acted like I didn't care, or it was a bother

To be honest, my wife was shocked. You think about me sexually that much?! Put it this way I told her. If it's been a week & on day 8 we win the lottery for 100 million dollars I won't care at all. I'll only be thinking of how frustrated I am!!

I think monogamy is awesome when it works! •No risk of nasty STDs. •The way God intended. •Built trust & sex is more than physical, it's spiritual. But let's be honest, THERE ARE MILLIONS OF MEN THAT AREN'T HAVING SEX WITH THEIR WIVES & it's a huge cause of divorce.

Do I think this is all the wives fault? Sorry black pill dudes but ABSOLUTELY NOT. You are the LEADER. It is on you to stop ignoring it & acting like a boy. Stop escaping & hiding watching porn. SIMP MOVE BRO.

If you watch porn: 1) You can't be a good father. That girl you're watching has a Father too, even if not an earthly one. 2) You disrespect your wife so much. That girl you subconsciously wish is doing what your wife would do is being paid 2k, is high on PCP & is most likely a

If you're married & striving to be a great husband, dad & leader then do this today. •Sit her down & say you need to talk. Be calm. Never accuse her & you take OWNERSHIP. Be a MAN. "Hunny, it's on me I've never really communicated to you how important this is to me. I lust

•Then ASK HER QUESTIONS. What's the biggest barrier to us creating this kind of sex life? Ideally what's a great marriage look like to you? What is your love language & how can I best fill you up everyday? How can I create space for us so this isn't a chore for you?

I'll just be honest here. Husbands trust me here & LEARN!! I never got this when I worked corporate. Now that I'm a work from home dad there are some days I AM TOUCHED OUT. I've had kids all over for me 10 hours & the last thing even I want is sex for a little bit. I want a

Most guys, myself included here until I stayed home, do not get this. I recall getting this a few years ago when I stayed home a long weekend with all the kids while my traveled. She came home filled up & ready to go & I wanted a few minutes to JUST BE. I needed to breathe.

Husbands a few easy things you can do to create this space & get her to look forward to & initiate being intimate with you. 1) Over communicate & understand her needs. Ask good questions, LISTEN & work with her. 2) Date nights. Get her out of MOM & WORK MODE & go have fun!!

My wife & I hire sitters 2/3 times a week & keep dating! We laugh, connect, share life & it never fails within 10 minutes of our date my wife says something like "I have 0 anxiety, this is so nice!" We also take one vacation a year WITHOUT THE KIDS. I love being a dad. This

I'm just going to admit it. We got pregnant on our honeymoon & our first couple years of marriage I never took my wife on ONE DATE. 😢 My work got my best. My daughter got my best. My wife got the leftovers always. No adventure. No excitement & passion. As men we need to

3) Create alone time for her where no one needs her!! Every Saturday I take all 3 kids from 8:15-11:45. My wife has a few hours TO BE. She hits the gym, runs, meets friends for walks, powers work uninterrupted, reads or does whatever she wants! It's a reset & so healthy.

My wife & I talked a year or so ago. We both love being parents. But we both said it is nice to get away & have our TIME every now & then. Once a month we actually take a day off. Last week I had 24 hours I off. I played poker, met a buddy for a long walk & grabbed steaks.

A few weeks before that my wife went to a women's conference with friends, took a long walk & grabbed dinner. We both come back refreshed & ready to pour into our family again. This all comes back to communication & you leading the way to create the BEST HOME FOR YOUR FAMILY.

The nuclear family with locked in parents is the MOST POWERFUL entity in the world. We need on fire moms & dads leading homes & modeling what HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS look like.

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